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Life is Simple - Why complicate it?




I was thinking about Snow White in her constant sleep. When I was a little girl, I wondered what she was dreaming about. As I got older, I became fascinated with Shakespeare. My favorite tragedy was Hamlet. The soliloquy lines “In that sleep of death, what dreams may come?” presented the same question.

Despite the worried look on my family's faces whenever they were presented with my morbid fascinations, I began to realize how a certain set of social norms directed us toward a life that felt more like death.

Isn't it normal to make your objective and your focus your career, a family, your physical appearance? Aren't these worthy goals? The accumulation of things can make us happy, can't they? Don't you want a bite of that shiny red apple?

Most people will confirm that they do and should make one or more of these things their priority. What happens if you make your career your main objective, and you get laid off or fired?

What happens when you make your physical appearance your main objective and you fall ill or have an accident? What happens when you make your family your main objective and they grow up and move away?

Feelings of anger, bitterness, emptiness and perhaps depression set in. You might feel as if you have lost everything. This failure in thinking is a symptom of the failure in the institution of knowledge and faith. We feel like this when our iman is weak, when we believe we possess what could be lost in a shipwreck.

A social movement called “minimalism” asked the same question and came up with a methodology for living that at least addresses these questions and potentially leads us to a thought process that begins to solve them.

Minimalist living as a philosophy can be defined as “the intentional promotion of the things we most value in order to live life on purpose.” The practicalities of minimalist living can potentially follow the sunnah teachings. Examples of minimalist living can be found in the Tiny House movement and Yurt living, environmentalism, and volunteerism. Any action that minimizes consumption and the pursuit of wealth and material goods for their own sake is considered a minimalist action. Using wealth to give back to society without recycling that same wealth back to yourself is a minimalist action. Smiling and giving salaams are minimalist also. It doesn't cost you anything, but it affords the world so much.

The idea is not that having material things is bad in and of itself, it's the excessive meaning we assign to things that is a destructive force in our lives. I think anyone would be hard pressed to find someone who wasn't carrying some form of debt for example. Clearly there is a failure in governance and economy linked with such a shift in social ideology. 

What if we had agency over our own options? Wouldn't that make us “strange”? I mean what if we didn't want what most of society wanted? What if, what mattered most to us was the nurturing of our own and others' souls?

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said,“Islam began as something strange and it will return to being strange, so blessed are the strangers.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim145

Historically, the concepts embodied in Islam were foreign to the Arabs who based their social ideology on tribalism. Eventually, monotheism and adhering to universal moral teachings was no longer strange at all. It is indicated that social norms will turn and these teachings will be strange once again. There are major injustices going on in the world today. The crisis of Syria being a constant reminder of what happens when injustice is compounded with worse injustice.

What difference would it make in your life if you deliberately made a decision to actively pursue what was ethically most important to you? To actually live your philosophy, your religion? To have the courage to be kind?

How would your life change if you became surrounded by people who want to make a difference, who are inspired to create massive social change and impact by peaceful means. To have relationships that are deep and profound. In fact we have a responsibility to spread quais (good) to our family, community and through our teachers. Our role inevitably will be that of ihsan (excellence) in our social responsibility through our deeds and actions.

Just as the Prince gives Snow White a kiss and wakes her up, Al-Ghazali said:

Dear friend,
Your heart is a polished mirror. You must wipe it clean of the veil of dust that has gathered upon it, because it is destined to reflect the light of divine secrets.

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